Curated Connections
For the Modern Lifestyle
Connecting attractive, high-quality individuals in Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamorous, and Open dynamics.
A Word from
Our Founder
“Birds of a Feather Matchmaking is an exclusive, concierge-style firm dedicated to connecting discerning individuals who embrace ethically non-monogamous, open, polyamorous, and lifestyle relationships. We cater to those who value authenticity, intimacy, and transparency but find the modern online dating experience unfulfilling. Our carefully curated network is composed of attractive, successful, and emotionally intelligent individuals who understand ethical connection and seek meaningful, dynamic partnerships beyond convention. Here, your relationship style is not only accepted, it's celebrated.”
The Process
Application
Begin by submitting your application to our private database. This secure, offline registry is the foundation of our matchmaking process and is required before any screening calls.
Screening
Following your application, we conduct a confidential consultation to understand your desires, boundaries, and lifestyle. Every member undergoes a rigorous vetting process to ensure authenticity.
The Curated Search
Our matchmakers leverage an exclusive network to hand-select potential partners who align with your specific non-monogamous dynamic and personal values.
The Introduction
We craft tailored introductions designed to spark genuine connection. Whether it's a first encounter or a curated meeting, every detail is arranged with care so you can focus on the moment.
Private Matchmaking
Full Service & Concierge
For those who value their time and privacy above all else. We handle the entire process—from scouting to vetting to arranging the first date.
- Active Heart-hunting
- Background & Social Media Checks
- Concierge Date Planning
- Post-Date Feedback Loop
Date Strategy
Consultation & Support
New to non-monogamy or feeling stuck? Our experts help you refine your profile, understand ENM dynamics, and navigate complex social landscapes.
- Profile Optimization
- Communication Scripts
- Boundary Setting Workshops
- Navigation of ENM Etiquette
Success Stories
Discreet. Verified. Real.
“Victoria introduced me to someone she believed would be a perfect match for me. Her intuition proved to be spot-on. Since meeting, we have enjoyed an incredible summer together. We communicate daily, travel as a couple, and have formed a deep connection that now feels inseparable.”
“Was there chemistry? Yes! We didn't see the time go by, and even extended the evening in a bar in the same neighborhood so we didn't have to leave each other too early.”
“I liked the fact that he was very interested in my life and showed his interest in me quite quickly. He gave me lots of compliments that made me feel comfortable and confident. He has a lot to share and I think we're on the same wavelength.”